so, what's the point?

Venkaiah Naidu typifies the Indian politician. The BJP leader has sounded out his subordinates to be ready for a snap poll in case the Congress - Left alliance (otherwise known as the UPA) collapses. Nothing inherently wrong in that. We've been seeing it from the time when India became an independent country, and elected its own leaders.
Of course, since then, we've had opportunistic, greedy men pillage and ravage people's faith in the system. Today it's made us cynical to the core. Perhaps, a little too hardened as well.
So, thick skinned that when Naidu makes an irresponsible comment like the one he made in Bangalore, we think nothing of it. Saying that a government is about to collapse is a serious matter. The fact that there will be instability, discontinuation of several programmes and initiatives, derailing of policies that haven't even finished their incubation period, are all irrelevant.
The only thing that matters is that the BJP comes back in to power. He has been critical of the Congress, but hasn't suggested a way to mend things. He's said that his partymen should be ready in case there's a vacuum at the top. What happens once that vacuum is sealed, no one really knows. The sad part is that no one cares. If the BJP is in power, it will take some populist decisions, some hardline decisions to appease its allies and then continue to hoard wealth. The Congress will bitch and moan, complain and throw tantrums, yet completely ignore coming up with any truly progressive ideas.
When I was in school, I was taught that every member of Parliament has the right and privilege of being able to table a bill. I would love to meet a parliamentarian who has in his career tabled a bill that has gone on to help the poorest individuals in his constituency.
The problem is that, the opposition, instead of being a watchdog, conspires constantly to bring down the party in power. It's the Indian crab syndrome. Can you imagine what might happen if all parties agreed on an issue. Besides, most of India's citizens suffering from a combined heart flutter, it might actually contribute to some progress.
That might be the best way to ensure that we have a stable government and we have some constructive criticism rather than an air of pure, unadulterated negativity around us.
If there's credit to a plan, there's credit to a plan... But don't tell that to the Indian politician...
he's too busy trying to stop being the opposition.

mnemonic ramblings

A memory is a cancer, or so I believed. It eats at you, slowly while you either want to forget or relive. I don't know how it got that bad sometimes. It's like the narrator in the Fight Club said, 'a scratch on your upper palate that would go away if you could only just stop licking it.' Well, I couldn't. The 'if's' and the 'why's' never quite explained themselves.
Your own people slipping through your fingers right as you realise it's too late to say anything, and moments you want to tell yourself to just stop and think. Only that chances to do that didn't really exist. To revisit is to take a scalpel and cut out a healed wound.
Things we say or do, don't remain in time, suspended or completely inanimate. I believe they're just as dynamic as our life and our chronology. We move with the times and time catches up on us eventually.
I don't ask for forgiveness like Bono asks in 'One' but I do want a salvation from everything I want not to remember. The burden isn't something I'm meant to carry. I'm not really who I seem, I'm not a victim of my persecuted dreams. A fight isn't within. It should be with forces I cannot determine. If I fight with myself, I don't get anywhere. I stay inert externally.
Internally, though I may achieve a metamorphosis, however slight. I understand that to hurt, to pain, and to die are only natural. Whether it's us, others or our memories, we can only act as we are acted upon. So, the question is: what do we then do with our time here? Surely, can't fill it with undulated thoughts of self defeat. What then is the question do I do with my memories. With my thoughts that beg me, compel me to introspect and restructure.
I want to remodel. I will rebel against all that's mine and prove myself wrong. I need to re-invent. I can rise again. I will learn from my memories, from the time that I have had and invest for the time I have now. I am time, time is me. Memories I release you, you control me no more.

what's wrong with the world?

So, I've got an axe to grind. So, I'm upset. So, you don't know me, so you don't care. Well, I don't either. But I've got a point to make it, and make it I will.
Like Black Eyed Peas sang out... What's wrong with the world, yo?
I ask the same thing.
I'm torn about whether my homeland is dearer to me now that I'm away from it, or am I better off that I have the option of never having to return. The options make me angry. It's my homeland. The angst of not wanting to belong apart, I have a right to feel for my own country, my own earth, my own people.
Instead, I find myself increasingly repulsed by what I see and what I read. I'm quick to jump to conclusions but surely, my countrymen have more sanity and better judgment than that.
Apparently not. Let me illustrate.
The Gujarat BJP mock-staged the hanging of Mohammed Afzal, the prime accussed in the Parliament attack in December 2001. A team of lawyers beats up the stage Afzal, as a crowd cheered on. So, it's a plea for a prompt hanging for a controversial figure. Wrong. It's a gambit in a political battle. What till yesterday was an issue of justice, has today become a tool to gather public sentiment against a presidential candidate. Please note, that Afzal will probably never hear of this, neither will a voice be raised against the concievable violation of Afzal's fundamental rights. Instead, people gathered and cheered to watch the 'drama'. Please also note that none of us actually vote in a presidential election. In fact, the presidential election has traditionally been a fairly low key affair. It's good proof that nothing is incorruptible by the Indian political process.
We have an exploding population. The HIV virus is slowly but steadily starting to reach dangerous levels. So, what then I ask you is the best method of dealing with the problem. History has taught us education, awareness and promoting use of contraceptives helps. Obviously, our politicians slept through that class (and several others am sure).
Karnataka has banned sex ed in schools. The rather appropriate-ly named Horatti has decided that it would be against the interest of the students to learn about condoms, semen and vaginas.
Instead, he's decided that they should learn all about lathes, drills and exercise drills.
Another case in point. Hindustan Latex discovered that use of condoms was becoming boring for users. So, to spice things up a bit, it introduced a condom with a vibrator. Of course the people in the Madhya Pradesh administration, believe in having sex solely for procreation and not pleasure. As a result, there were vehement protests across the state from the administration to withdraw the product. A letter reached the PMO as well, claiming that the condom was a sex toy and hence, illegal.
Why should a group of individuals decide what I do in my bedroom? It's like telling me that I can't use a toothbrush with a vibrating function because India has a long tradition of using 'datun'. I know it's a stretch, but you get my point.
These protests happen while women get raped, while the politicians still pocket handsome amounts of kickbacks, while an entire chawl still crowds around a single tap, hoping, praying, it gives them water.
I know I'm not the only one upset. But why should we continue to even tolerate this.
I know what those of you'll sitting in India are thinking: "It's easy for you to say"
It's not really. While I was in India, I had two options. To get into the train, go to office, eat, sleep, drink (a LOT!), etc. or to get involved in what was happening around me, to be a voice challenging what I thought was wrong. I would like to think I did a good mixture of both. Today, I don't have a choice. All I can do is ask my self, what can I do? What can I say, write or contribute to that will make a difference.
How do I feed the kids on the street who don't have food for days, who're probably exploited regardless of how much money they can mooch off people.
How do I assuage the anger, the frustration of the cop who just won't take your FIR seriously, because he's got a kid to put through school and he can't do it on 5000 rupees a month.
How do I reassure a witness that he shouldn't fear the mafia and that his testimony will help bring justice when I know he'll probably be dead before he reaches the witness stand.
How do I convince a mob of people that religion is a divide that political leaders created so they'll never have to think of a winning strategy ever again.
I don't have a single answer. I don't think I ever will.
I do know my kids will never know hunger. They'll never know what it's like to be poor. I know they'll know right from wrong. I know they'll understand what it is to be secular.
What I don't know is whether I'll be ever able to tell them how proud I am of being Indian, what it is to be Indian.
I want to feed them the same rice my mother fed me. I want them to feel the same breeze I felt on my face on my first train ride on the footboard.
I just don't know if they'll be able to.

a place somewhat like home

So, am back. Singapore is now firmly home. Well, as firmly as a place will hold an itinerant and wanderlusting (no, there isn't such a word!) couple. But, yeah, Singapore is for now the place to rest my head. In the past month, I've been to Mumbai, then to Bangalore, to Mumbai again, Egypt, (the Nile, Abu Simbel, the pyramids and all that) Mumbai and now, Singapore again. So, been kind of on my toes. Lots of fun, lots of excitement.
And I think what's made it extremely exciting is the fact that all along Debkanya (now officially and socially known as Mrs. Vyavaharkar or if you like I'm now known as Mr. Dhar... :p) has been just as ready to jump on a tonga, or a bus or a cruise ship as I am. And I can't tell you how much joy there is, in taking a trip (even if it's just to Dharavi) with a person who travels just for the sheer joy of it. So, yes, it was a fantastic time.
Anyway, so, now responsibility will be a buzz word. What do I make of it? Well, it's a lip smacking prospect. To live up to the expectations of the people I care about, who'll be expecting me to stick to the same standards that we've seen our parents achieve. Now, how's that for a challenge. Of course, it doesn't mean that you won't catch me stumbling around, muttering something about Rahul Dravid or Bjorn Borg. But you get my drift...
Also, the word 'family' and its notion has been extended to include so many more amazing people.
Home is where the heart is. Home is now three places. Mumbai, Bangalore and Singapore. Mumbai for being the home of the Vyavaharkars, Bangalore as the home of the Dhars, and Singapore for being the first home of the Dhar-Vyavaharkar partnership.
So, we don't know where we're headed. I don't know where I'm headed, but at least there's a place to go back to every day, and whether it's Singapore or Aswan, the best part is not where it is, but who's at home. No, and I don't mean me!

a new year is under way

Alright, took me a while to get going again, but I figured I'll just wait for the new year to post an update. So, here I am. In 2007, I'm heading into a year that's so full of promise that I'm not sure if I should sit or stand, run or jump, scream or shout (yes, yes, I know dictionar-ily they're rather similar!)
But a lot of things that are about to happen will be beyond my control. Not just the sequence of events, but even the magnitude or the subsequent reactions. I know it sounds a little controlling of me to want to know all those details, and I'm happy to hurtle along the road of unanticipated bliss, but it's just baffling and rather intriguing as to how things are about to play out. And I guess I'll just have to wait. And I'm more than happy to.
Anyway, the earthquake in Taiwan over the weekend really gave us an idea of how dependent we've become on technology. The internet in Singapore which is capable of re-uploading this page about a hundred times over in the same time that it took to say this, suffered and how. Debkanya's parent's who're visiting were delayed flying in, not because of some weather or technical issue, but due to the fact that they couldn't access the Singapore intranet for the airlines from Bangalore. And so, all bookings and seat allocations had to be done by phone. When we talk about technology having eased our life, we often forget, how complicated it's become as well. The computer is a fine invention but now all my data is stored on the computer, but something as silly as a power blackout, means I have no access to any of it. In the olden days, my mother just used a noting diary to jot everything down. She knows brevity, she knows detail and she knows prioritisation, and she didn't even need a Franklin-Covey scheduler to help her figure any of that out.
Well, that's my take anyway. I guess I am blogging here and I shouldn't exactly be panning technology, so I won't. I'll stop. Or then I could always go to the printing press.

some more thoughts as it rains outside!

Loneliness is a state of mind, I have come to learn. We all try and make sense of how to complete ourselves and when we do, I can tell you from experience: it's the only feeling worth living for. We are social animals, I learnt in primary school. Never quite understood how, but then it all makes sense. We all have animal instincts. Every need of ours has a parallel in the animal kingdom. The only one that's markedly different is the need for other people to invest in. Emotionally, spiritually, physically, and to truly realise the meaning of doing these without expectation or reciprocation.
As I wait for the best part of my life to join me here in Singapore, all I can do is get my head down and go to work. And I'd like to think I do a decent job of it. WorldSpace is a good place to work. Play is a great place to work. Play, that's the name of the sports channel I work for on the WorldSpace network (how's that for a plug!), is the sort of place where you get a chance to meet like minded people, with the same passion and the same zest to do the things you want to do. The stuff that excites you when you're a kid. Sure, I may not get to hob nob with Dravid and Agarkar (the few cricketers I feel really comfortable chatting to), but here I am, talking to our listeners out there, about cricket. Giving my opinions, my 'expert' analysis of a situation and getting them to respond, putting our 'experts' like Gaekwad, Hogg, Ranjit Fernando in the spot while I sit smugly in my shorts, sipping my coffee or Milo as the case may be! How cool is that? Who would have thought a overweight, cranky kid from Bandra would be able to wax eloquent on his favourite game for hours on end.
So, life comes full circle. As it has for my significant other and me. We started wanting to immigrate to another country about 10 months back, without really knowing how we were going to go about it. But the answer pretty much fell into our lap. Just like that. So, here I sit in Singapore, about to embark on a journey I can barely contain my excitement for. So, Play might have come as more than a job opportunity, it's perhaps been a life altering change that I hope we can do justice to. That I hope does justice to us. Actually, I know it will.

another warm day in singapore

Life is strange in so many ways. One of the most striking is how the frailty and the vulnerability of life is exposed by the fact that we're reminded that it can be threatened in a flash, but then almost immediately we're assured that all's well with the world. Still reading that one again, are you? So much can be said but so much is best left unsaid. There in lies the lesson of life, there in the wisdom of knowing when to shut up.
Anyway, the Ashes are beginning to take their toll on the English, but they've put up a fightback on Day 1 of the Perth Test. So, they might be 2-0 down in the series, but at least they're beginning to show some pluck, and finally it feels like we might have a contest on our hands. But it is Australia they're playing, who probably have a sadistic streak in them somewhere. Each time, in recent memory, every time a team seems ready to overthrow their suppression, they find something in reserve, and crush any chance of a fightback. Just like they did in the Adelaide Test.
Well, that Australia's unique there is no doubt, but what's also unique is that Glenn (my colleague, and former Radio Mid Day Mumbai jockey) just discovered that guava's in Singapore can be seedless. What have you discovered today.

hope and other things

So, yes, it's been a while. And things sometimes do get a little delayed. And then sometimes things have their own pace. Like the making of a new life, like the seeds of a beginning you have no clue to, like the morning you had no idea was about to dawn. Like Shakespeare said, 'All the world's a stage and all men and women merely players.' We do all play our part here, don't we? (is there a more trite question you've heard?)
Like me asking a girl to dance with me, after much deliberation and then with some inebriated confidence. Like me deciding that I can handle Pakistan on my own, like becoming a sort of recognized face in the world of sports broadcasting, like knowing that there's always just one person who is the one for you. Like, every little choice made and every little outcome that you have no way of predicting. But we must still all take our chances. All scripted, but unscripted. Perhaps, now I'm beginning to explain to myself why the url of my blog is the way it is.
There's so much to say about life, but we humans really don't have the words. We might think we do, but all we manage is verbose, circumlocative combinations of words that say absolutely the same thing. WE ARE REDUNDANT.
Singapore is my new home as of now. It's also the site that the Vyavaharkar's (one born, one converted!) are about to embark on a mission to keep each other happy. I'm excited that the SouthEast of Asia will be where the life of my adulthood and beyond will begin. Would I have it another way? I don't think so. I'm just trying to make sure that I'm making sense, and I'm sure with each additional word, I'm failing miserably at that task. But that's the pace of life. Frantic, maddening and yet at once serene, calm and hopeful.
I'm hopeful that life ahead is going to be a blast, I'm hopeful that I can keep blogging, I'm hopeful that I can lose weight, I'm hopeful that life will always be this good. Hope. A good thing like Andy Dufrense says in Shawshank Redemption, perhaps the best of things. And I intend to keep my faith in that belief, perhaps even invest in it, if I can.

Purposefully pointless ramblings

Life is full of interesting twists and turns. There's a cliche, if there's ever been one. But I think that cliches exist only because they're true. There's no other way to explain why a group of words or expressions so hated, manage to stick around for so long.
But then, so do stereotypes, or impressions or then theories of people long given sainthood. It's amazing how we don't seem to tire of spitting the same spiel out over and over again.
There's a lot to be said about the people who came up with them. Either they were absolute genuises who knew that all it would take to keep people going on and on, would be a few contrite statements (Is Pierre Fermat listening?) or they were bumblings fools, a la Peter Seller's character in 'Being There'. Either way, they deserve more credit than most of us, because we'll still be discussing something they said, long after this blog has made its way to cyber limbo.
Anyway, the point of me saying all this is that, there is a lot that each of us say or do that we fail to realise has a past much longer than our own. And the beauty or the tragedy (your point of view) is that we'll never know it.
I do realise that some of you will read this post as being rather directionless, but then the point is that I want to ramble, and the basis of this rambling was founded in East Asia by Japanese court ladies who wrote of what else but of their encounters with men in high places. So, we've travelled about 1,300 years only to go from pillowbooks to digital memoirs. The idea though hasn't changed. We have to remember that life isn't black or white, or for that matter grey. It has to be a combination of hues beyond our comprehension. And which is why we feel compelled to pen our thoughts and ideas down to make ourselves feel slightly better understood.
I am not sure if there's a purpose to my explanations besides making myself feel wiser. Or then perhaps, the only reason I'm writing is that I feel that it's the only way I can make any sense of why I started writing in the first place. The motivation become the motivating factor and the end result in itself. Not bad, I think, to end on a non-cliche.

In Pakistan: Winding Up the Wandering Trail

Wanderlust is wonderful, it truly is. But when does the physical exhaustion of the human body overtake everything? And primarily replace any joy, satisfaction or enthusiasm of doing a good day's work or a great trip around a place? I'd like to think I still have wanderlust in me... that it still thrives and continues to rouse my spirit everytime I think of the next trip ahead of me... but the honest truth is that I'd rather be on a plane back to Delhi...
Yet, in reflection, I've had a great time on this trip... the places I've been, the people I've met... I'll surely chronicle the whole experience sometime soon when I sit back, take stock and over a couple of drinks, narrate a story or two that really typifies what Pakistan has come to mean to me... and come to think of it, I already know the basic sense of how that account is going to turn out... the answer is 'Multani Mitti'...
Pakistan is like the famed dust of Multan... it's everywhere and on everything, as much as India lives in every brick of every corner across my land... Pakistan isn't a place, it's a culture (mind you not too different from ours) and it's a people, still unsure of their identity that has thrived so many years based on a indoctrinated hatred of their neighbours... The dust in Multan blows through everything all the time, making it impossible to go anywhere or anyplace without being covered in its deposits, and it grows on you, the more time you spend with the people, with the land... And I can't honestly say I've fallen in love with the place, (certainly WON'T say that about Faisalabad and Multan) but there's a certain attachment I guess you develop after spending a rather concentrated 40-odd days in one country. And it's been an intense experience because most of the things I've encountered have been forced down my throat, not just the food, but even the way the police reacts to situations (won't be complaining of Indian police brutality for a while) and the often overbearing hospitality of the people...
It's a good thing that the cricket has improved in the one-day series, and just as well, since there literally wasn't much to write home about in the test series... but eventually, with India on the verge of a series victory in the land of dust, atleast it's given a reason for most of us journalists to smile... and there's still the chance, that I might just have a tour to remember...

In Pakistan: A national song of unity

There's a pop anthem that's been playing across the stadiums celebrating Pakistan... and it's followed us pretty much everywhere we've been. The chorus goes 'Pakistan... Pakistan'. Obviously, there's no doubt what the singers intend to do. Charge the sentimental and patriotic feeling of stadia and mass gatherings. But today in Lahore, it was the cause of completely different sort of emotion.
There's about a thousand Indian fans here to watch these games... and I believe they stampeded at the Wagah border to be able to come here and pack themselves into a stadium with 30,000 odd other people... but that's what cricket does to you I guess. Anyway, while this anthem was blasting on the PA system, a large group of some Indian fans holding the tricolour decided to get up and started dancing to the tune. In a short while, there was another group that came and joined them. This one was a mix of Indian and Pakistanis. Applause then started to come from another part of the stadium and it was another group of Pakistanis appreciating the effort. It was a really surreal moment, as I watched this from besides the press box. It was a strong emotion of how much this mean to the people to be here, and actually experience the fact that even in a country where we Indians are made to believe is a culture that mistrusts and dislikes us, things are just the same. It seemed like a homecoming of sorts, simply because surely it was for a lot of these people.
But then, of course, the game started and the chants of 'Jeetega Bhai Jeetega, Pakistan/ India Jeetega', and I realised we might be the same and one in many respects. But when it comes to cricket on the field, it's still war... Well, all I say, is that as long as there's nothing nuclear about it.

In Pakistan: Reflections off the field

I'm in Peshawar for the start of the one-day matches and I'm really starting to question the intelligence of what I'm doing. I'm not sure if people feel this way on long tours of duty, but it's a feeling that's creeped in innocuously over the past few days, and then just hit me smack in the face. I'm in a foreign country, in a land of hustle and bustle, of political and ideological lines so sharp you have to take sides just to survive, and where each language is so rich in itself, it could exist independently of Pakistan. And yet, I'm here covering cricket. It's the gentleman's game, of course but it's also like covering a football in the middle of Somalia... ok, that's a stretched out comparison, but what I'm saying is that it's a little wierd that I'm reporting on something that's an obsession with some many millions of people, while what they need to be made aware of will never see the light of the day, at least for the time being. But I guess, it's my duty to report on the cricket and that is what I shall do. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the sport, I love it as a matter of fact, but just having to work on it when you there's stories out there that have the potential to affect people and inform people far better is something that I cannot ignore. I guess, it's not my job to worry about what goes on outside the cricketing arena as much as one can't worry about how much water gets below the surface and to the roots of a oak tree...
I guess we each have our purposes... mine so far has been to cover the cricket as long as the Indian cricket team is present in Pakistan. So, from Peshawar, traversing across the country, through Islamabad, then Lahore, then Multan, and then Karachi makes for interesting thought. The real challenge here is how to use cricket and use that as a medium to get the viewers in India and pretty much anyone who watches my channel, to appreciate the beauty, the spirit, the madness, the defiance, the religiousness of this land.
Cricket is a sport that's played with a mixture of patience, physicality and skill unlike most sports... No other sport can be so physical and last over so many hours, and sometimes days. I guess most people ignore the fact that playing test cricket needs you to be involved with the game all the time, mentally, physically and if you ask the Indian coach, philosophically through all the five days and then there's always prep time and cooling off time... so, it's a full time job really. It's glamourous but it's demanding as hell. Sort of like what we do, except more high profile. It's the involvement that's the ambassador, the passion, the eagerness to perform. People see it and realise both sides want it just as bad, but the spirit never wavers. And I guess, that way in a sense, Indo-Pak cricket has done a lot of work for the development of relations. Not at any governmental level but by getting people to realise that it's all the same. This land or that... I don't think there's one journalist on this tour who believes, we're a divided nation, that we're not a people meant to be undivided. It's inevitable that on the cricket field, when you take one look and think, what could a combined team of these twenty two might have achieved that Australia hasn't today or the Windies did in the 60's. It's a wishful thinking that I know political and economic reality will never let come to pass, but still, I can dream now, can't I.

In Pakistan: The 'Hat' trick of Reporting

It's a refreshing day today in Karachi. It's been cold for the majority of the tour, very similar to how I left Delhi. For a change, I just did a morning live shot with hardly any layers on, one to be exact.
And also, after a while, there's a buzz surrounding this game. Lots of speculation about players, pitch conditions and all the spicy things that make reporting a game of pure kite flying but yet compelling and drama-like that you actually feel like you're doing something important. I'm not disillusioned or upset with my kind or my field, it's just that it's the truth. I mean think about it, people love reality tv these days. I mean, the Osbournes are a household name only because everyone wants to know what Ozzy puts on his pancakes. I'm not sure if people percieve their lives as too boring or if there's a genuine interest in what goes on behind famous closed doors.
It's almost an extension, what we do, this fascination with whether Sourav Ganguly is a targeted man or if there's really truth in another rumour about Sachin Tendulkar's elbow. The fact of the matter is, often enough, we journalists know as much about the rumour or tale as reader or viewer. Television sports journalists (will not want to smear the political, business and entertainment beat) such as yours truly are self-admitedly notorious for sometimes going on air with information that is half confirmed at best or at worst, factually inaccurate and unverified. But it sells, and public memory is only as long as camera flash, so nothing you say can really come back to bite you in the as*. I've screwed a few times on air, and I'll challenge most people who saw that broadcast to tell me those instances and call me out. Chances are, no one remembers (might have something to do with my un-memorable manner) but yet, the point being, for the most part, I won't be caught for a dropped catch.
Here in Pakistan, it's a little strange because I'm so isolated from what's going on in India. Like Rahul Dravid (no, not name dropping!) keeps saying, 'I'm in a cuccoon here... I don't hear anything and don't want to... that's the best part about touring, I can just focus on the cricket...' Unfortunately, I don't have the luxury of not wanting to hear anything, because it positively affects my bottom line...
So, we try to stay keyed in and get the dope we can... and yet, miss out occassionaly, and sometimes hit jackpot... but that's like anything we do, so why should reporting be any different...
Gosh, I was such a worry-free boy only a few years ago, not having to worry about keeping a track about myself, let alone about an entire religion (I'm talking about cricket of course)...
And Irfan Pathan's just achieved a hatrick in his first over, and there's already talk about the test match wrapping up early... but what can we do, speculate of course, and worry about whether anything I use to test the waters will ever hold it. But for now, it's a really nice day in Karachi...

In Pakistan: No one's a loser anymore

So cricket, the game I have rediscovered in the past few days, is gloriously uncertain, or so I've been told. And yes, I've seen frequent examples of shifting fortunes and the tables turning in a matter of minutes. Similar to that other amazing sport, football.
But when does sport become non-competitive... In theory, in definition, it can't. Intrinsically, someone has to lose and someone has to win... but what do you do when the way a game is played doesn't necessarily allow you to do that? It's not such a simple answer. You could for instance, attempt to claim a moral victory. Score a last minute equaliser, and a team could claim to have won a match, everyone thought they had lost. Even though the score might be 1-1, there's something to be said for snatching victory (or a draw in this case) from the jaws of defeat. And that, many might consider the thrill of sport.
As a spectator, and an as ardent cricket and football (read Manchester United and England) fan, there's a certain amount of pride in watching, my team (be it India, MU, or England) fight back after they've had their backs to the wall. It displays a certain amount of character, a resilient quality that we're likely to admire almost anywhere. So, that perhaps might be a reason to fall in love with a team that doesn't give up (although Team India has self-decapitated on innumerable occasions in the past, this current one might have some spunk).
So, what does that say about the teams that win all the time (read Chelsea, Brazil, Australia). Simply that they don't know how to lose. Put them in a situation where they're supposed to have their backs to the wall, and they probably won't even know that they do. Do they compete? Yes, but only in the sense of obliterating an opponent that has to be crushed and demoralised completely. So, that the next time they raise their heads, it'll only be to match a respectful gaze.
I don't know if any of this makes sense. I don't even know why I started writing this in the first place... but I guess, I'm just trying to say that sometimes you don't have to win to be a winner and a draw doesn't always make you an equal, it just might mean that you decide to become a winner but just a tad too late...

In Pakistan: Re-romancing the sport

Cricket is to me what algae are to the fungi in lichens. It's a part of me that I cannot deny, and that I couldn't live without. It's a romance that had faded but as I watch a series that has to be a let down in terms of excitement, I find my self falling in love all over again. It might be the way I'm living my life these days. Enjoying every moment, each a thrill all its own.
I've never really been into bare facts and figures and can't honestly quote freely who had the highest score in the 2nd test India played versus Australia in 2004.
I guess as a sports journalist I should, but the bare truth is that I don't. I've never been into the details of the sport from a sense that I cannot tell you how many balls MS Dhoni took to make his 148 at the Iqbal Stadium in the second test in Pakistan in 2006. And while I was in raptures watching every ball of the Jharkhandi's knock, I honestly would prefer to leave the stats and the number crunching to those who do it best. Sure, it's a job that must be done. And of course, someone's got to do it. But not me.
To draw a silly parallel, it's like life. Enjoying the Dhoni innings in every way, was for me an experience very much on the lines of soaking in the bigger picture. The details are important but only in a peripheral sort of way. It's the details that make up the bigger picture, and it's always the wider perspective that gives us a real satisfaction. I mean sure, a good sentence might stick out from a book, but if the book didn't give you the sort of stimulation you wanted from it, you're chances of remembering that line are rather slim. It's the same way with pretty much everything else in life, at least as far as I'm concerned. The bigger picture always trumps. So, on any given day and twice on Wednesday ('coz it's media night at TC's...), not for me the eternal joy of realising that a record is about to be broken... give me the thrill of watching the ball sail over the ropes anytime!

Breathing in smoke in Pakistan

It's taken me a while to actually get to this stage. I'd decided to get to this, a while back, but then there's usually been a slip between the cup and the lip... in this case, it was more like, I just forgot the cup was waiting to be sipped. Well, the coffee (or tea) didn't quite lose it's warmth, so I decided to go ahead and taste it anyway.To explain the title of this post, I'm actually in Pakistan, sitting in a press box, watching the second test between India and Pakistan in a city (actually a village masquerading as a city) called Faisalabad. It's about a couple of hours west of Lahore, and isn't really much to offer besides a few textile plants.
Perhaps, the most surreal part of all of this is that, the last time this happened (when India were here), I was in the US covering how the NRIs and NRPs are following every minute of the action, regardless of time of day. And right now, I'm sitting here watching Rahul Dravid caress Abdur Razzaq through the covers. It's quite something. I can honestly say that I am sometimes overawed with how close to the action I've had an opportunity to get. And what baffles me even more is that I'm here, which means that people back home are probably (being the operative word) listening to what I have to say about Inzy's back or about the pitch or about just anything I want to feed them. And I'd like to think I do a semi-decent job of it... but that I guess only time will tell...
Time will tell me a lot of things... the days in Pakistan have told me a few things for sure, that life isn't always about trying to shut out your past or it doesn't necessarily mean that what's happened before is all bad... it's just that whatever is happening in the now, in the present, is so precious, it's quite literally worth immersing yourself (in a very John the Baptist sort of way) for the moment itself. Life is now. Life is today. Life is this full stop that's about to follow. Not this one. This one.